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Loss of sensation (written by Dr. Rowan)
Ask Dr. Rowan,
I seem to have lost sensation while having sex with my girlfriend, what could it
possibly be ? Over-masturbation, sex organ incompatibility? I just can seem to
have an orgasm! Help!!! (I'm a guy)
Dear Iím a guy,
You do not indicate how old you are, if you are on any medication, if you are
using a condom, how aroused either of you are, of if you have been successful
with other women. All could be factors. Can you masturbate
successfully with sensation to orgasm? "Over-masturbation" would
not be an issue unless you have conditioned yourself to some technique that
intercourse cannot duplicate. A common cause of difficulty in ejaculation
in young men is situational anxiety. If excessive lubrication is a
problem, consider changes in position to provide more contact.
Masturbation (written by Dr. Rowan & Dr. Pluhar)
Ask Dr. Rowan & Dr.
I am 22 years old boy and I have a very serious thing to ask you.
I have been masturbating for the past 5-6 years nearly everyday.
I would like to know if this would be a problem for me in the future.
Please guide me and help me out. Thanks
There is no evidence that daily or more frequent masturbation has consequences
in terms of future potency or fertility. If your technique causes
trauma, then you should change it. If masturbation interferes with
relationships, then you might consider therapy to explore why this is so.
If you feel guilt (an almost universal experience) consider the study of
masturbation-positive books to see it from a different, more joyful,
Thank you for your question. You are not alone in wondering if
masturbation might cause you harm. Because of the many myths that abound
about masturbation, it often isn't easy to talk about it, let alone feel
comfortable doing it. But, rest assured that there are absolutely no
proven health problems that result from masturbation, even if you do it once a
year, once a month, or once a day. In fact, masturbation is a healthy and
normal behavior. It can help people relieve stress, experience pleasure,
and learn about their sexual response cycles. The only time masturbation
can be become a problem, just like ANY behavior, is when the urge to do it
interferes with your normal life and relationships. From what you
describe, your masturbation is perfectly healthy and natural! I hope this
helps you out and relieves your worry. Sincerely,
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