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Communication & Keeping relationships Vital
Divorce / Separation
Female sexuality
Male Sexuality
Sexual Enrichment
Sex Toys
Chronic Illness & Sexual Function
Aging & Menopause
Sexual Orientation and Gender
Sexual Abuse
Compulsive Sexual Behavior/Addiction

Communication & Keeping relationships Vital

Barbach L. For Each Other- Sharing Sexual Intimacy. New York: NAL 1983.
Barbach, L & Geisinger, D. Going the Distance. New York: NAL/Dutton, 1993.
Corn, L., 101 Nights of Grrreat Sex: Secret Sealed Seductions for Fun-Loving Couples
Gottman J. & Silver N. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. New York: Crown Publishing Group, 1999.  
Hendrix, H. Getting the Love You Want- A Guide for Couples. New York: Harper Trade, 1989.
Love, P, & Robinson J. Hot Monogamy: Essential Steps to More Passionate, Intimate Lovemaking. New York: Penguin 1994.
McCann E., Dannon D.
The Two-Step: The Dance Toward Intimacy. New York: Grove/Atlantic, 1985.


Pittman, Frank. Private Lies: Infidelity and Betrayal of Intimacy. New York: W.W. Norton, 1990. Schnarch D. Passionate Marriage: Love, Sex, and Intimacy in Emotionally Committed Relationships. New York: Henry Holt & Company, 1998.  
Spring, J., & Spring M.
After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful. New York: HarperTrade, 1997.


Robboy, A. Aftermarriage: The Myth of Divorce, 2002
Vaughan D.
Uncoupling: Turning Points in Intimate Relationships. New York: Vintage Books, 1990.

Female sexuality

Barbach L. For Each Other: Sharing Sexual Intimacy. New York: NAL, 1983.
Barbach L.
For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality. Garden City: NY: Doubleday, 1976. Boston Womenís Health Book Collective. Our Bodies Ourselves For The New Century. A Book by and for Women Designed by Bachman and Pincus. New York: Simon & Shuster 1998.  
Berman & Berman
For Women Only: A Revolutionary Guide to Reclaiming Your Sex Life
Dodson B. Sex for One: The Joy of Self-Loving. New York: Random House, 1995.
Heiman J & LoPiccolo, J.
Becoming Orgasmic: A Sexual Growth Program for Women. New York: Nal, 1983.
Kitzinger, Shelia.
Woman's Experience of Sex. New York Penguin, 1984.

Male Sexuality

Kaplan, H. How To Overcome Premature Ejaculation. New York: Brunner/Mazel, 1989.
Milsten, R & Slowinski J.
The Sexual Male: Problems and Solutions. New York: Norton, 1999.
Zilbergeld, B.
The New Male Sexuality, Revised Edition. New York: Random House, 1999
Zilbergeld B & Ullman J.
Male Sexuality: A Guide to Sexual Fulfillment. New York: Bantam Books, 1984

Sexual Enrichment

Anand, M., The Art of Sexual Ecstasy: The Path of Sacred Sexuality for Western Lovers. Los Angeles, CA: J.P. Archer, 1989.
Barbach, L.,
For Each Other: Sharing Sexual Intimacy. New York: NAL, 1983.
Comfort, A.,
The New Joy of Sex: A Gourmet Guide to Lovemaking in the Nineties (The Joy of Sex Series). New York: Pocket Books, 1992.
Joannides, P.,
The Guide to Getting It On! (The Universe's Coolest and Most Informative Book About Sex). West Hollywood, CA: Goofy Foot Press, 1998.
Love, P & Robinson J.,
Hot Monogamy: Essential Steps to More Passionate, Intimate Lovemaking. New York: Penguin, 1994.  
Morin, J.,
The Erotic Mind : Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment. New York: Harper Collins, 1986.
Muir, C.,
Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving. San Francisco, CA: Mercury House, 1990.
Schnarch, D.,
Passionate Marriage: Love, Sex, and Intimacy in Emotionally Committed Relationships. New York: Henry Holt & Company, 1998.  
Urge- Hot Secrets for Great Sex

Sex Toys

Blank, J., Good Vibrations: The New Complete Guide to Vibrators
Winks, C., The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex: The Most Complete Sex Manual Ever Written


Dodson B. Sex for One: The Joy of Self-Loving. New York: Random House, 1995.
Rowan, E.,
The Joy of Self-Pleasuring: Why Feel Guilty About Feeling Good?

Chronic Illness & Sexual Function

Schover, L.,  Sexuality and Chronic Illness: A Comprehensive Approach
Schover, L.,
Sexuality and Fertility after Cancer. New York: John Wiley & Sons, 1997.
Schover L. & Jensen S.,
Sexuality and Chronic Illness: A Comprehensive Approach. New York: Guildford, 1988.
Sipski M.,
Sexual Function in People with Disability and Chronic Illness: A Health Professional's Guide. Gaithersburg,, MD. Aspen Publishing, 1991.

Aging & Menopause

Barbach L., The Pause: Positive Approaches to Perimenopause and Menopause. New York: NAL/Dutton, 1993.
Levine, S. Sexuality in Midlife. New York: Plenum Press, 1992.
Rosenthal, S.,
The New Sex over 40 (Wheeler Large Print Book Series (Cloth)). New York: Putnam, 1999.
Sachs J.,
Sensual Rejuvenation: Maintaining Sexual Vigor Through Midlife and Beyond (Natural Pleasures Series). New York: Dell Publishing, 1999.
Sheehy, G.,
The SILENT PASSAGE REVISED AND UPDATED. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1998.
Siegal D.,

Sexual Orientation and Gender

Berzon, B., Permanent Partners: Building Gay and Lesbian Relationships That Last. New York: Dutton/Plume, 1990.
Clark D.,
Loving Someone Gay. Millbrae, CA: Celestial Arts, 1977.
Loulan J.,
Lesbian Sex. San Francisco, CA: Spinsters Ink, 1984.
Loulan J & Burton M.,
Lesbian Passion : Loving Ourselves and Each Other. Duluth, MN: Spinsters Ink, 1987.
McNaught, B.
On Being Gay: Thoughts on Family, Faith, and Love (Stonewall Inn Editions)., New York: St. Martinís Press, 1989.

Sexual Abuse

Bass, E., The Courage to Heal - Third Edition - Revised and Expanded : A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse. New York: Lexington Books, 1991.
Maltz, W.,
The Sexual Healing Journey : A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse (Revised Edition). New York: Harper Collins, 1991.
Maltz, W.,
Incest and Sexuality: A Guide to Understanding and Healing. New York: Lexington Books, 1991.
Miller A & Hannum, H.,
Thou Shalt Not Be Aware: Society's Betrayal of the Child. New York: Farrar, Straus & Giroux, 1984.


Compulsive Sexual Behavior / Addiction

Carnes P., Contrary to Love: Helping the Sexual Addict. Minnapolis, MS: Compcare Publications, 1989. Carnes, P., Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction. Hazelden Information and Educational Services, 1992.




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