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Foreskin
How To Have Good Sex, Inc
HTHGS: Sensitive foreskin, (written by
Shan & Claude)
Ask Shan & Claude,
I’d prefer my name and stuff not to be giving out, if you don’t mind lol,
well anyway, I got this lil "problem" if you would call it. I don’t
know, its not really, as in everything works ok, but the fact I was never taught
as a child to "pull my skin back" (foreskin) and when I realized I had
to, and tried, its painful, party because the skin is slightly tight at the top,
although the doctor says it doesn’t need circumcision or however you spell it,
and when the head is exposed, it is extremely sensitive, and it hurts if
touched. Which cannot be good if I'm going to be having sex or that kind of
conduct. I’m not sure what to do, when it is fully erect, the head is not
exposed, but slightly, which as far as I’m aware is the way it should be when
not erect. What I think has happened, is as I never pulled it back, the top
stayed kind of tight, but the rest has stretched, leaving me with to much skin.
Is that possible? If so, what should I do about it? Or is that normal? I don’t
really know what to do, an I don’t really want to go back to the doctor incase
he just tells me to go away, he told me to just keep pulling the skin back,
which I cant, as it hurts I just leave it, and even when I do pull it back
(I’ve never been able to do so while hard, it hurts 2 much) but was able to do
so when small once, but looks like there’s way to much skin. Its bothering me
quite a bit, but anyway, I would greatly appreciate any help you could give me
on this. And would having the head not totally exposed be a turn off for women?
please get back to me as soon as you can, thanks.
Dear foreskin question,
We would not recommend that you do anything that hurts you! If you could
stretch your foreskin without much pain and you were willing to try that would
be a different story. It seems that it causes you a lot of pain. It
sounds like your doctor may not be very understanding either. We know that
it can embarrassing to see a medical professional, but it is better than
suffering or being confused. We are proud that you were looking out for
yourself and asked for help! You may want to try going to a Planned
Parenthood it will most likely be free and they should be way more
understanding and sensitive to your situation. We have no way of telling
if there is anything wrong with your penis or foreskin so you may want to
follow up with a doctor or health center that is more in touch with your needs.
We would recommend that before you asked about your foreskin you ask some
sexuality related questions to a health care provider and see how they handle
it. Did they dismiss you? Did they laugh? Did they make you
feel comfortable? When you find someone who is kind and a good listener -
ask them. This may take looking around a little but it is your health
and it is worth it! Shan & Claude
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