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Kissing
How To Have Good Sex, Inc.
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Kissing
on the nose (written by Shan&Claude)
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French
Kissing (written by Shan&Claude)
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Kissing
techniques (written by Alex Robboy)
HTHGS:
Kissing on the nose (written by Shan&Claude)
Ask The Colestocks
How do I go about kissing on the nose?
TDM Arrah
Dear
TDM,
Do you mean an Eskimo kiss? Are you referring to the slang term for
when people rub their noses together? That involves two individuals
rubbing their noses together. Or do you mean kissing or tonguing the nose
and nostrils? Some people enjoy tonguing the nose and nostrils of another
person. To some people such behavior is quite intimate and shows a deep
acceptance of the other person. It is certainly not too different than
rubbing tongues, lips, or hips together! Anyway, we hope this helps answer
your question. Have fun, The Colestocks
This
tip was originally written by Shan & Claude Colestock
HTHGS: French Kissing
(written by Shan & Claude)
Ask Shan & Claude,
I have read all the advice written and I am still at a loss. I have been dating
my boyfriend for 4 years (he has been my only boyfriend). And I still have been
too shy to French kiss him or to even tell him I have never French kissed
before. I am-in normal life an extremely shy person and only will go somewhere
new if someone is with me, or try something new if someone thoroughly explains
it to me. So my question being; can you please explain in detail how to French
kiss (I read the articles on the site, but they didn't explain to me enough to
be comfortable trying it). For example should my tongue be going in his mouth,
should I just open my mouth, how should our tongues move together... and
secondly how do I get over the shyness with my boyfriend (if it wasn’t for the
shyness I would have just asked him to show me how-I have tried many times but
couldn't do it). I would appreciate an answer as soon as possible, it is coming
up on my anniversary, and I would really like to kiss him the way I feel about
him. Thanks kt
Dear KT,
Well, we are glad you felt comfortable enough to ask us! It is an
indicator that you are losing some of those inhibitions that you described.
Maybe the Internet is a good way for you to get info and overcome some of that
“extreme shyness?” This question is a beautiful one. It is
beautiful because the kiss (for many people) is enveloped in such romance and
intrigue and it is probability an art form! We will do our best to
describe it. However, there are some things in life that are virtually
indescribable. How do you tell someone what an orange tastes like?
How do you describe what it feels like to run a five minute mile? Some
things must be experienced so the first piece of advice we have is to simply
try it you can do it!!! We also recommend you talk to a trusted friend
and ask them about what technique they use or how they do it. If you are
lucky you may even get them to kiss you! If that is out of the
question we have heard that many people practice on their hand or on a pillow.
Do you kiss on the lips? To us the
beginning would begin there. Kiss on the lips and let your tongue brush
his lips. He will most likely pick up on your cues. If he doesn’t
reciprocate you may need to put the tip of your tongue into his mouth.
This question is also very culture dependent some cultures don’t
“French” kiss, and some cultures practice kissing on trees or practice by
putting little fish in their mouths! It is much like dancing you take a
step and they take a step. It can be a wonderful dance of back-and-forth
exchange that changes and alters every time. It has a rhythm of its own.
How much you move your tongue and how deep you push it will be up to you we
can’t tell you that.
If we did try to spell it out it would
maybe pollute the dance! We wouldn’t want you to think you weren’t
doing it right! Part of the fun and excitement is figuring it out with
your partner and even laughing about stuff that didn’t go well. You
could suck each other’s tongues, you could have your tongues just barely
touch, you could put his tongue in your mouth or vice versa, you could have your
tongues meet out of your mouths or in the mouths. There are many options
but don’t let them confuse you or overwhelm you the main thing is just
that you take the chance to experience and live the kiss - if it is something
you really want to experience. Sometimes it is hard to take risks.
But, we hope we have given you enough of a description that you feel okay with
trying it because that was what you asked right?
Lastly, we have to recommend you talk to
him about it! People who can’t talk about what they are doing sexually
may not be ready for those behaviors whether it is kissing or intercourse.
Open communication is your ally. After 4 years we hope that you could
discuss a kiss or we would be concerned that this person may not contribute to
you feeling very comfortable. If communication is out of the question we
would recommend that you seek the help of a qualified couples or marriage
counselor. This may seem extreme to you over a kiss but we promise
that there will be many more conversations that must take place in your
relationship that are far more difficult and awkward that this and a counselor
may be able to help give you both the skills and comfort and permission to
communicate about such issues. Again, we are delighted that you asked us
and we hope that we helped you.
Shan & Claude
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