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Erectile problems (written by Kelly Connell, MS.Ed.)
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KELLY,
HELLO MY NAME IS MIKE I AM 23 I HAVE BEEN HAVING SEX SINCE I WAS 21 AND I HAVE
BEEN HAVING A PROBLEM SOME PROBLEMS. WELL THE FIRST PROBLEM IS THAT SOMETIMES I
CAN GET AN ERECTION AND SOMETIMES IT JUST WONT WORK AT ALL I HAVE BEEN TAKING
GINKGO AND L ARGININE HOPING IT MITE HELP BUT ALL THE GINGO DID WAS MADE MY
BLOOD VESSELS EXPAINED SOMETHING SERIOUS AND GOT BIGGER WITH WIDTH IT WAS PRETTY
COOL ACTUALLY. BUT I AM STILL HAVING THE NO ERECRTION PROBLEM I GET NIGHTLY ONES
AND ALL THAT IT JUST WHEN IT WANTS TO IT WON’T WORK. IS THEIR ANYTHING
YOU CAN RECOMEND FOR THIS?? SECOND PROBLEM IS WHEN I DO GET AN ERECTION I CUM TO
EARLY AND WHEN I DO IT’S VERY EARLY IF I GET 20 MINS I AM LUCKY I ADMITT I
MASTERBATE ALOT DOES THAT HAVE SOMETHING TO DO WITH IT??? I WANT TO BE
ABLE TO GO FOR AN HOUR OR MORE SO WHATS THE DAM TRICK TO THAT ITS VERY UPSETING
I WANT TO BE ABLE TO DO THAT. I AM WILLING TO DO
WHATEVER IT TAKES. EVEN IF I TRY TO HAVE SEX RIGHT HAVE WARDS I CANT GET AN
ERECTION AT ALL SO ITS GETTING VERY UPSETTING AS YOU CAN SEE I NEED TO FIX THESE
PROBLEMS . THANK YOU FOR READING MY EMAIL AND I AM HOPING THAT I HEAR FROM YOU
SOON. I AM WILLING TO SPEND THE MONEY ON WHATEVER I HAVE TO FIX THIS PROBELM . I
AM ALREADY TAKING L-ARGININE 500MG GNC MEGA MEN VITIAMIN YOHIMBE ACTION FOR MEN
from gnc I WAS TAKIN GINGKO EXTRACT
BUT I STOPPED WELL THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME I HOPE TO HEAR BACK FROM YOU.
SINCERLY
MIKE
PS I AM 23YRS 230LBS 5' 7
Dear Mike,
That is a lot of
information! The first thing I can tell you is that there is nothing wrong with
masturbation BUT you can train your body to ejaculate quickly depending on how
you do it. Most men, when they masturbate, do it very fast because they
want the end result-the ejaculation. They do not take their time and start
and stop etc. The good news is, is that you can learn to control your
erection by masturbating slower, taking your time and starting and stopping
several times. Think of it like a muscle. you need to get your ejaculatory
control in shape. It takes time, but can be worth it.
Second,
I don't know anyone who can have intercourse for a straight hour without
stopping. I am not saying it is not
possible, but it is not the average. Sexual prowess does not lie in how long you
can keep your erection or have sex with someone. It lies in your ability to be
open to pleasing your partner, and that doesn't necessarily mean intercourse.
Third, I would stop taking all of those supplements. They can have side effects
you are not aware of and taking them together may have adverse effects. You may
be doing yourself more harm than good. Again, you cannot get your sexuality from
a bottle. It has to come from within. I would make an appointment with your
primary care provider for a physical to make sure there is nothing going on
physically. You may have a medical condition and sexual side effects are common
with many physical conditions. Your doctor can also tell you if you are at a
healthy weight for your age and height. The most important thing is that you
learn to be happy and accept your sexuality they way it is. Good luck, Kelly
Connell MS.Ed.
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