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Fellatio
(How to have good sex)
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Nervous about
receiving fellatio (Written by Kelly Connell, MS.Ed.)
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Oral
Sex (written by Kelly Connell MS.Ed.)
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Male Ejaculation
ME
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Female Ejaculation FE
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The Male Orgasm TMO
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The Female Orgasm TFO
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Locating the Male G-Spot
MG-Spot
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Locating the Female G-Spot
FG-spot
HTHGS: Nervous about receiving fellatio (Written by Kelly Connell, MS.Ed.)
Ask Kelly,
Hey I am going to get oral sex for the first time tomorrow,
possibly sex, but I’m kind of nervous because what if my partner does not
think my penis is big? I’m also nervous because what if I cant get erect or I
do not ejaculate while having oral sex? could you help me out, thanks
Penis size has nothing to do with pleasurable oral sex.
Some people find a large penis intimidating when performing oral sex. There are
afraid they cannot get it all in their mouth. Any partner who comments
that your penis is not big enough would, in my opinion, be pretty shallow and
you might want to re-evaluate whether or not you want to be with this person. We
all have something about our bodies that we don't like and can't change and we
all have to work with what nature gave s. It is not the size, but what you
do with what you have.
If you can't get erect right away, relax and try
kissing or making out or doing something that has previously made you hard. If
the person who is performing oral sex on you continues to do so, eventually you
will ejaculate. You may have to stop for a while and have some manual
stimulation and then go back to oral sex and that is ok too. Some people use
oral sex as a method of foreplay for coming some other way. You don't have to
come every time you have oral sex.
Try to relax and enjoy it and remember, it can only get
better the more you do it and your partner learns what pleases you.
experimenting can be fun.
Good luck Kelly Connell MS.Ed.
HTHGS: Oral
Sex (written by Kelly Connell MS.Ed.)
Ask Kelly,
Thanks for reading: I wouldn't consider this a "problem" or anything,
but I think because of my girlfriends lack of experience possibly or for
whatever other reason, she seems to not go 'directly on the penis', like my
diagram below (sorry, my English isn't amazing, so I will use my "picture
like diagram") 8======> & What I guess I consider normal, she would
go down and up on the penis (imagining that the "&" is her mouth.
8======> & She seems to always go from the sides, and other things like
that. I've tried everything, and I can't think of any solution... Please save me
and thank you, -FeJ
Dear Fej,
You say you have tried everything, but have you tried TALKING to her and telling
her what you would like? Sometimes you have to come right out and say that
something would feel good or you would like to try it a certain way.
Communication is the key to a good sex life. Another thing you might try is to
rent an erotic video that features oral sex and watch it together and if you see
something in the video you would like, tell her you would like to try it like
that. Visual aids can be a big help! Good luck, Kelly Connell MS.Ed.
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