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How to get even wetter (written by Yvonne Fulbright, MS.Ed.)

Ask Yvonne,
I have a problem while having sex with my boyfriend, he would be all excited and wet and I would be excited but not wet, eventually he would enter, have the time of his life, has an orgasm, and I fake it sometimes. Want I wanted to know is what is my problem? And how can I help it? My second problem anytime we have sex maybe a day or two later my vagina would become irritated. I was wondering why is this happen to me, this is causing a problem between the two of us because sometimes I just don't want to have sex with him and he is so sweet. Please help us. Will try anything!

Dear Will Try Anything,
A likely reason for you having trouble getting wet during sex is that not enough foreplay – or arousal time – is taking place. It takes longer for women to get their juices going than it does for men. You and your boyfriend should spend more time getting you turned on. Play with your clitoris more. Have him tap into your G-spot. Use sex toys or pornography for extra stimulation. Furthermore, use some lubrication, like KY jelly, during sex play, and on his penis and/or condom. If none of that works, then you may want to evaluate your sexual feelings for him. Are you attracted to him? Does he turn you on? Why are you in a relationship with this guy and sleeping with him?

Also, you’re not doing yourself a favor by faking. Your boyfriend can’t help you out if he thinks that you’re having an orgasm. Let him know that you’re not getting wet and that this is impacting your ability to have an orgasm. Have him slow down in his pleasure and desire to reach an orgasm and let you “catch up.” Of all the ways to help a woman reach orgasm, a partner slowing down his own arousal is most effective.

About your vaginal irritation after sex… If you’re using condoms, you may be allergic to latex. If you’re having unprotected sex, you may be allergic to his sperm. If you’re using spermicide, you may have a spermicide allergy. Depending on what kind of vaginal irritation you’re talking about, your irritation may be due to vigorous thrusting, or the dryness you’re complaining about. Yvonne K. Fulbright, MS.Ed.

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