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What to do in bed (written by Yvonne Fulbright, MS.Ed.)
Ok, I have had sex many times but I really don't know what I am doing. I just
lay there when the guy is on top. I WANT to be better but I do not know what to
do. Please Help MEE! Thank you so much, Tara
There are a number of things you can do. First, set aside some time for sex with
yourself, without your partner around. Learn what your body enjoys – what
kinds of touches feel good. That way, the next time you have sex with your
partner, you can touch yourself in those ways, ask your partner to touch you in
a certain way, or show him how to touch you when he’s on top. Also, try
different positions with your partner, like doggie style or woman on top. The
missionary, woman on bottom, limits your movements, so it’s no wonder that you
feel like you’re just laying there. If the two of you prefer missionary most
of the time, be sure to play with your clitoris, or have your partner do so.
This will make being on the bottom much more pleasurable!! Other things you
could do while on the bottom… Talk dirty or whisper sweet nothings in his ear.
Play with his nipples. Suck on his neck. Move your pelvis rhythmically with his.
Squeeze your vaginal muscles so they squeeze his penis. Lock your legs around
him, and pull him into you. For more ideas on what to do and how to move during
sex, pick up a sex book, with lots of pictures, at your local bookstore, or rent
a porn flick and see how the professionals do it! Yvonne K. Fulbright, MS.Ed.