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How To Have Good Sex, Inc.
- HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM HAVING AN ORGASM
- Orgasms
HTHGS: HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM HAVING AN ORGASM
Ask Alex,
I need your help. Currently, I am having good sex. I know this because it feels
good. My question is, how will I know if I am having an orgasm? During orgasm,
will the cum flow out?
Amy,
Dear Amy,
I am glad to hear that you are having good sex and that it is pleasurable
for you. Having good sex is important! Many people can not say that. It goes
without saying that the point of sex, contrary to popular belief is not having
an orgasm, but rather the process of being sexually intimate with yourself
and/or others. Remember the days when you first kissed a boy or a girl and you
were TOTALLY satisfied? During that first kiss, or first heavy petting
experience, the world felt like it was going to stop. There was no orgasm, yet
you were completely satisfied. Ok, so if you want to be goal oriented, how
will you know if you have achieved an orgasm. During an orgasm you will
experience a series of PC (puboccygeal) muscle contractions. To locate the PC
muscle, try stopping your urine, mid-flow. The muscle that you use to stop
yourself from urinating mid-flow is called the PC muscle. Some women report that
these contractions feel like you are sneezing, except that this sensation stems
from your genital area and not your nose. The contractions will feel out of your
control. In the moment, like a sneeze, you will be unable to stop the
contraction. In regard to your second question, will the cum flow out, the
answer is yes and no. A small percentage of the population during orgasm will
experience, what is called, Female Ejaculation. During female ejaculation fluid
is expelled from the urethra. This fluid is not to be mistaken for urine,
because it is made from a different substance. However, the majority of women
will not experience this. They may merely experience an increase in vaginal
lubrication.
All tips written by Alex Robboy, LSW
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