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Getting prepared for anal sex (written by Kelly Connell, MS.Ed.)
As far as being clean for any kind of anal stimulation, the
best thing to use is plain old soap and water. Using any kind of alcohol
or astringent will not only burn and be painful, but it may harm the natural
mucous membranes around the rectum. many people enjoy taking a nice warm
bath or shower together before and after. This will also help relax you.
However, you can also wash with a washcloth and towel as well.
It is important that BOTH of you wash before AND after so the
bacterial that resides in the rectum doesn't get into your vagina and cause an
infection. You should also be sure he does not go from rectum to vagina or
mouth without washing first. Also, you should ALWAYS wear a condom as
unprotected intercourse is a very risky behavior for both HIV and Hep B and C.
Some people choose to give themselves and enema before having
anal intercourse. This is a personal choice and not a necessity. It
all depends on what you fell comfortable with. A wonderful book that has a lot
of great information about anal sex etc. is, "Anal Pleasure & Anal
health-A Guide For Men And Women" by Jack Morin, Ph.D.. You should be able
to order it at any bookstore. Good luck, Kelly Connell MS.Ed.
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