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Cumming during sex

HTHGS: Cumming during sex (written by Yvonne K. Fulbright, MS.Ed)

Ask Yvonne, 
Basically I have one question, why doesn't my girlfriend cum during sex 


Dear One Question,
There are a number of reasons why your girlfriend may not cum every time… 

1.      She may be under a lot of stress and preoccupied with worry

2.      She may not really be in the mood, but is having sex to please you

3.      She may need more direct stimulation on her clitoris or on her G-spot

4.      There’s too much of a focus placed on her, or both of you, “achieving” orgasm

5.      She’s thinking too much instead of enjoying the moment

6.      The two of you rush into sex, without getting fully aroused

7.      She’s tired

8.      She’s afraid she won’t orgasm and actually ends up suppressing her sexual response

9.      She’s too worried about pleasing you

10.  If the two of you just had a conflict, or have relationship problems, she may not be able to cum

 It is very rare that anybody (men included) orgasm every time they have sex.  There are just too many relationship and life events that impact our mood.  So don’t put that pressure on her, or yourself, for her to orgasm every time you have sex.  Likewise, if you think that any of the reasons listed above are impacting your sex life, help her out and see what you can do to enable her to come at least most of the time! Yvonne K. Fulbright, MS.Ed.



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Ms. Robboy is the Founder and Chief Executive Officer of The Center for Growth Inc and How To Have Good Sex Inc.  Alex practices marriage and family therapy and sex therapy, and also conducts periodic seminars about human sexuality throughout the northeastern United States.

Ms. Robboy graduated from the University of Pennsylvania where she earned a Masters degree in Social Work, a Certificate of Advanced Studies in Human Sexuality Education and a Post-Masters Certificate in Marriage Counseling & Sex Therapy. Through the American Board of Sexology, she is a board certified sexologist and through the American Association of Sex Educators Counselors and Therapists a certified sex therapist.  Additionally, she is a licensed clinical social worker and a member of the American Board of Marriage and Family Therapy.


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