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HTHGS: How to turn a guy on before
having sex (written by Shan & Claude) Ask Shan & Claude, Dear please help, HTHGS:
Stimulation (written by Shan & Claude) Ask Shan & Claude, Anyways, I've been reading this
new letter since I was 15/16, thinking it would ready me for having sex with my
current boyfriend at that time. But I never did because some of the letters are
moving and you guys seem to really care, which made me care about giving my
virginity to the right person. Anyways, sorry about the
rambling! =) I'm 18 now and I'm proud to say I'm a virgin still. But I guess I'm
exploring my sexuality a lot more cause there much more talk about it now a
days. But I think I'm seriously broken when it come to simulation! I don't get
pleasure what so ever from myself! I've tried things to put me into the mood,
but I just get turned off. My boyfriend turns me on so much, and I love him to
death, but I don’t get any real pleasurable feeling when he performs oral sex
or fingers me. We thought maybe something thicker and longer would suffice, but
I'm not "oh-so-ready" for sex intercourse. Would it be safe for me to
use a vibrator? Or do I have to be de-virgin-ized? I've been to the GYN, but
they weren't any help because I’m still a virgin. I hope my letter makes sense
to you guys. I'm just a little confused I guess?? Dear O_o?? In the dark, By the way don’t do anything that you are not ready for! If his oral sex and fingering isn’t pleasurable what makes you think that intercourse with him will please you? Anyway, spend some quality time with yourself and try to find pleasure in your body. Try to feel how good it feels when you comb you hair, or when you touch your inner thighs. Of course you will want to stimulate your clitoris but remember you have other parts of your body that may give you pleasure as well. You are NOT broken you can experience pleasure! We are sure of it. We are granting you permission right now to enjoy yourself and to enjoy your partner! Using a vibrator could be a wonderful way to explore pleasure! You do not have to put the vibrator inside yourself if you are concerned with virginity or similar issues. Most women vibrate their clits, which is outside the vagina. We highly recommend that you find your pleasures before you proceed to intercourse because if you just go for intercourse you may discover that it hasn’t done anything to make you experience pleasure. Does that make sense? We think we understand where you are coming from. We hope you find your pleasure just dedicate some time and energy to it and have fun celebrate yourself! Just don’t jump ahead to intercourse hoping to find pleasure there or you may be disappointed. Find it first and then experience intercourse later. You have time and should be comfortable. Shan & Claude |
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