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HTHGS: Woman on top (written by
Shan & Claude) Ask
Shan & Claude, Dear
Part 1, You
originally wrote about your guilt that your boyfriend did most of the
“work.” Did you tell your boyfriend that you want to try new
positions or did you tell him you felt guilty because he does the “work?”
The difference is huge. Does
he know that you want to try to explore new positions and ways of giving and
receiving pleasure or does he think that you feel bad because he is getting the
workout? It may benefit both of you to talk about what you want and
how you both feel. Communication
can be difficult to initiate but it tends to lead to increased comfort with one
another and with the acts being performed.
Without some degree of comfort there is usually little chance of
pleasure. There
is not really any magic secret to what you will like on top – that is for you
to discover. One hint that may help
you is that instead of you going “up and down” there is a way to grind your
hips horizontally that will give him the same friction and sensation and will
simultaneously grind your clit into his hips which you may enjoy.
Some women find it easier to orgasm on top. We would speculate that it is because it puts the rider in
more of a “power” and control position.
It also may allow you to better control the speed, angle, and depth of
penetration, which may help you, experience pleasure. Whatever
position you get into during sex one thing that may help you will be to focus on
your pleasure – not on how many positions you know, not on the nagging guilt
of your boyfriend doing more work, not on whether he is being pleasured, and not
on feeling a little embarrassed. It
is important to communicate about such things – but the focus should be on
your sensations and pleasure. You
can do it! Enjoy! Shan&Claude HTHGS:
Sex tips (written by Shan & Claude) Dear ride of his life, Ask Shan & Claude, I have started having a sexual relationship with my boyfriend, I have been sexually active for some time. I have a problem with my current boyfriend missionary position is difficult and we cant always do it as I am on the large side so we find it difficult to do it missionary, but we do it very well when he is behind me what other ways of intercourse can we do because from behind could get boring Dear boring from behind, We have heard from some large individuals that they enjoy having intercourse while spooning/laying side by side. Nothing we write is guaranteed – you must experiment and try to find what works for you and your partner and your body types. We do not know of any, but suspect there is a forum on the web for individuals experiencing similar problems. If there is not one – start one! We get these questions frequently and there is a need for helpful information. Hope that helps, Shan & Claude
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